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Patricia H. Ladew Foundation, Inc.

P.O. Box 307
Oyster Bay, New York 11771
516-922-CATS
Ladew Cat Sanctuary

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Patricia H. Ladew Foundation, Inc.

  • Welcome
  • About Us
    • Contact Us
    • Tour the Sanctuary
    • History
    • About Patricia H. Ladew
    • About Our Staff and Volunteers
    • Become a Volunteer
    • Ladew Cats are Family Ready
    • New Page
  • Adoption Application
  • Blog
  • CATS FOR ADOPTION
  • Cat Care
    • A Message from Susan Whittred, DVM
    • Owners Guide: New Cat & Kitten Checklist
    • Introducing New Furry Family Members
    • It Doesn't Happen Overnight
    • Ask Dr. Susan
  • Donate
  • Events
  • FAQ
    • If I need to give my cat up for adoption, what do I do?
    • Can I return the cat I adopted if something happens?
    • How do I help stray cats in my yard?
    • My neighbor died and left cats behind, what can I do?
  • Happie Tales
  • Ladew Mews
  • Press
  • Seniors for Seniors
    • About Seniors for Seniors
    • Participating Veterinarians
    • Available Senior Cats
  • Sponsor
  • Surviving Pet Care
    • Surviving Pet Care
    • Planned Giving
  • TNR (Trap, Neuter, Return) Information
    • What is TNR?
    • Sweetie's Spay (and neuter) Squad Vouchers
    • Low Cost Spay/Neuter Options
    • Rescue Groups and Municipal Shelters
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What is The 3 (days), 3 (weeks), 3 (months) Rule?

October 2, 2024 Susan whittred

Imagine, if you will, that someone just put you in a box and on the other side of that box is a completely new environment with people you have never met before. You have absolutely no idea why this happened and you are pretty scared of what is going to happen next. How do you think you would handle that? Would you be under the bed, petrified, or acting like nothing happened and completely at home with strangers, grabbing the remote and helping yourself to food in the pantry?

Most cats (and I think I would be with them) choose option A, under the bed. I’d probably be so nervous I wouldn’t even eat! This scenario is COMPLETELY normal for cats. It takes TIME for cats to adjust to new surroundings, They do not know that what has just happened (an adoption) is a good thing. All they know is that they’re in a completely new place, with new smells and people they have never met before and it’s pretty scary! Change is hard for all of us to accept, especially when we didn’t initiate the change. For cats I think it’s even harder.

Please give cats time to adjust. The 3, 3, 3 rule is real (and for some cats it could be 4, 4, 4 or even 5, 5, 5) — please give your new cat a chance to come to terms with change. While it’s true that some confident cats may adjust quickly, people are missing out on really wonderful cats because they just won’t give them the time they need to figure out that where they are is finally home.

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